Internet Dating - My Story
Wanna know who I am and what I'm rambling about this? Check out my previous Internet Dating post.
Internet Dating - Screening
Let's face it ladies men are better at this...they look at pictures, eliminate the impossible read further and narrow it down with their single focused minds. We see so many possibilities (hopefully we're all past the point where we see the potential - i.e. perfect with a few changes we plan to implement - instead of the man) that further investigation may be required. I tend to google search people for more background info - but that's just me.
The primary thing to remember when reading profiles is the random abundance in the world. We tend to operate from the idea that there is one person out there for us and we need to find him like a needle in a haystack. Lose this idea! It will make you desperate or at least make you act desperate. There is no need to look under rocks. If the guy is a chain smoker and you cant stand the thought of inhaling a cig then dont read further. Even if he was otherwise perfect - that one thing can ruin it. Be willing to move on, there are plenty of profiles to sort thru just keep going.
Internet Dating - The First Meeting
Keep it simple, go for coffee. You'll probably both know in the first five minutes if this is going anywhere. So grab a drink, check each other out and then act accordingly. If its a perfect match you can move onto something after your caffeine fix. If not then you can cut bait and run without wasting a lot of each others time. Keep it casual, keep it simple and remember You Are Having Fun!!!!!
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